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Do any of the qualities on the right look familiar? If so, they're the very things that keep you from getting the dates you want.

Get in the game
Let's review one critical fact of human nature: Women like to be asked. Sure, it's perfectly acceptable for a woman to make the first move, but most don't. That puts the responsibility squarely on your shoulders.

Next time you're out, watch your buddy in action. Make a mental note of the tactics he uses and try them out yourself. Some will work; some won't, but you can have fun figuring that out.

And practice on your own. Next time you're waiting in line — at the bank, the coffee shop, anywhere — start a friendly conversation with an attractive woman near you. Your goal isn't to pick her up; it's to see if you'd like to. The trick is not to let her get away without getting her contact information, if you'd like to see her again.

Search for local singles online and vow to email at least five of the women who catch your eye. A recent Match.com survey found that 58 percent of subscribers take conversations offline after only the first or second email. You could have a date by the weekend!

Look your best
Be sure you're taking good care of yourself. Women are attracted to many different body types except one — unhealthy. You don't have to be a model with washboard abs and a great tan. But you should at least be healthy.

Exercising regularly — participating in a basketball league, going to the gym, walking around the neighborhood — has a positive impact on your mood as well as your physique. Your body will produce more of the chemicals that keep your spirits high, you'll have more energy to plow into your dating activities.

Being healthy also sends a signal that you care about yourself. Good general health shows women that you're responsible and dedicated to your own well-being. And that kind of self-interest is attractive.

A recent survey found that online singles rate smile and eyes as the most important features. So stay current with your dentist/hygienist and ask your hair care professional to clean up your brow line so your eyes get the attention, not your eyebrows.

Be confident
Confidence is sexy. If you don't dig yourself, no worthy woman will. Be sure you're exuding confidence and self-esteem whenever you're around potential mates.

If you're sure of yourself you'll be more likely to throw the dice. You'll be more willing to ask more women out and be less disappointed if you get turned down. Whether you're online or off, you've got to be willing to make a move and see what happens. Otherwise, you're a poster boy for "what might have been."

Try these basic tips, Harry, and let me know how you do.

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